{"id":4273,"date":"2016-09-25T18:28:49","date_gmt":"2016-09-25T22:28:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.fitnyc.edu\/admissions\/?p=4273"},"modified":"2016-09-27T10:48:48","modified_gmt":"2016-09-27T14:48:48","slug":"how-to-spending-time-alone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.fitnyc.edu\/admissions\/2016\/09\/25\/how-to-spending-time-alone\/","title":{"rendered":"How To: Spend Time Alone"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As I get further into the semester, I begin to find that I have less and less down time. So when I do get time alone finally I tend not to enjoy it as much as when I am with others. It\u2019s not an ideal reaction but it is truly a normal one.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.fitnyc.edu\/admissions\/files\/2016\/09\/maxresdefault.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"4274\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/blog.fitnyc.edu\/admissions\/2016\/09\/25\/how-to-spending-time-alone\/maxresdefault-2\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/blog.fitnyc.edu\/admissions\/files\/2016\/09\/maxresdefault.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"1920,1080\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"maxresdefault\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/blog.fitnyc.edu\/admissions\/files\/2016\/09\/maxresdefault-300x169.jpg\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/blog.fitnyc.edu\/admissions\/files\/2016\/09\/maxresdefault-1024x576.jpg\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-4274\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.fitnyc.edu\/admissions\/files\/2016\/09\/maxresdefault-300x169.jpg\" alt=\"maxresdefault\" width=\"300\" height=\"169\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.fitnyc.edu\/admissions\/files\/2016\/09\/maxresdefault-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blog.fitnyc.edu\/admissions\/files\/2016\/09\/maxresdefault-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blog.fitnyc.edu\/admissions\/files\/2016\/09\/maxresdefault-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blog.fitnyc.edu\/admissions\/files\/2016\/09\/maxresdefault-624x351.jpg 624w, https:\/\/blog.fitnyc.edu\/admissions\/files\/2016\/09\/maxresdefault-24x14.jpg 24w, https:\/\/blog.fitnyc.edu\/admissions\/files\/2016\/09\/maxresdefault-36x20.jpg 36w, https:\/\/blog.fitnyc.edu\/admissions\/files\/2016\/09\/maxresdefault-48x27.jpg 48w, https:\/\/blog.fitnyc.edu\/admissions\/files\/2016\/09\/maxresdefault.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>One thing that has really helped me ease into alone time has been hobbies, the less time I spent with all my friends and whoever else the more hobbies I discovered I had. Use the silence to read, paint, knit, draw, whatever interests you. Recently I learned how to cook by just getting some random recipes\u2019 online. Next, while you are doing these things<strong> do not check your phone. <\/strong>Checking it defeats the purpose of alone time overall. Everyone tends to get FOMO aka, Fear of missing out.<\/p>\n<p>Also spending time alone doesn\u2019t mean you need to spend time locked in your room or apartment, go for a walk, treat yourself to coffee, or go shopping alone. This still counts as alone time even if you aren\u2019t really alone. I find that my taste in things tends to change with the people I am with so if I am alone I find more things that I love that maybe I wouldn\u2019t think of before.<\/p>\n<p>Lastly, enjoy the ultimate relaxation, when you\u2019re not running around or doing things for others its quite relaxing. My favorite moments are once a week when I climb into a bubble bath with a book and some candles. So my suggestion is cancel your plans, put down the social media and texts and just hang out with yourself.<br \/>\nXoxo<br \/>\nKailee<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As I get further into the semester, I begin to find that I have less and less down time. So when I do get time alone finally I tend not to enjoy it as much as when I am with others. It\u2019s not an ideal reaction but it is truly a normal one. 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